In the article below, we wanted to discuss one of the most critical elements to seducing that one girl you really want- your emotions.
Unfortunately, most guys emotions DO NOT act in their best interest when it comes to getting a girl (especially when you really like her.)
You’re emotions cause all kinds of mischief like making you act insecure, needy, clingy, and predictable – All things that MURDER attraction.
The reality is that when these “emotions” take over – its like it disengages your logical brain. And you start doing all the things you know you SHOULD NOT be doing…
Signs You’re Acting “Needy”
– feeling a compulsion to call or text her
– Unable to “play it cool”
– blurting out your feelings too soon
– making yourself too available
– showing noticeable jealousy when she mentions other guys
– showing too much disappointment when she can’t hang out
Here’s the worse part –
She is going to TEST YOU to see how “needy” she can make you – (she does this subconsciously of course) – Its her way of screening out weak guys.
She’ll cancel plans and pay close attention to how you react –
She’ll “forget” to text you back to see how you handle it –
She’ll challenge you on stuff to see how quickly you back down –
Here’s a very simple example of a “test” – If you’re listening to a certain type of music that you like she might say “Do you like that?” in a tone that expresses that she definitely doesn’t.
How do you respond? Do you lie and say “not really”? Or “It’s ok”
If so, you’re TRYING HARDER. And the pendulum of power is tipped in her favor.
– And she doesn’t want that. She would much rather you look at her and say “yea, this song kicks ass.”
No girl wants a guy who won’t defend himself. Even against her.
Here’s the good news: You can correct this imbalance, and rather easily when you know exactly what to do.