Are you a student in college? If you are, you may spend most of your time focusing on studying and your grades. With that said, it doesn’t mean that you don’t have other needs. You may have a need for a relationship and a need for sex. If your sex life is say nonexistent, you may be looking for tips on how to “get with the program“. If you are, please continue reading on.
To have intimacy with another individual, you first need to get out and meet other people. How you do so should also depend on your wants and your needs, in terms of intimacy. Are you just looking for a good time or would you like to have a full-blown relationship? If a relationship is what you are after, consider attending on campus events, such as concerts. You may also want to join a college run program, such as a charity organization. This will help you meet other college students who are not only nice and attractive, but ones that share the same interests.
As nice as it is to have a relationship, you may not have the time or the need for a serious relationship when in college. If that is the case, you may just be after a good time here and there. If that is what you are looking for, you may want to target social events, both on and off campus. There is a good chance that a party is happening somewhere near your college this weekend. If so, go attend. Another great option is to visit a bar. If you live in or around a college town, there is a good chance that bars are stocked full of other young students who are also looking to have a good time.
As a young adult, you likely already know the importance of safe sex, but it is still a topic that needs be to mentioned. Never have unprotected sex, no matter who you are having relations with. Birth control does not protect you against any sexually transmitted diseases. There is nothing worse or life changing than realizing you have a sexually transmitted disease, even if yours can be treated or cured with medication. Don’t let the lack of protection mess up your future or the good grades you have been working so hard to achieve.
It is also important to remember to keep your expectations in check. If you are looking for a relationship, do not automatically assume that your new sex partner is as well. As previously stated, those who spend their nights at parties or at bars aren’t always looking for a serious relationship. Be sure to have fun and be safe, but don’t automatically start thinking that the guy you are with is and will forever be the one. This can often cause you trouble and heartbreak. Don’t let anything impact your future or the grades that you are working so hard to get.
In conclusion, attending college is more than just about getting good grades and starting your future. It is also about having a good time. If you are a sexually active college student, you can continue to get your needs fulfilled while still getting the education your future needs. Just remember to use your head. Many college students have multiple sex partners so your chances of catching a sexually transmitted disease increase significantly.